Thursday, December 16, 2010
Sunday, December 12, 2010
Listened to This 2010
Sunday, October 24, 2010
It's been awhile...
Sunday, July 25, 2010
10 Things I Love About Summer
Saturday, July 24, 2010
20 THINGS I WISH I’D KNOWN AT 20
A COUPLE WEEKS AGO, IN MY LETTER TO 20-YEAR-OLD ME, I WAS CONGRATULATING MYSELF ON NOT HAVING BEEN PHOTOGRAPHED TOPLESS. A FEW DAYS LATER, I REALIZED THAT WASN’T STRICTLY TRUE.
MY ROOMMATE JEN RECTOR WAS A PHOTOGRAPHER, AND SHE TOOK A WHOLE BOOK OF VERY RESERVED PINUPS. I’M AMAZED THAT I LIVED IN AN APARTMENT WITH A PHOTOGRAPHER AND A FULL BAR AND WE STILL ONLY MANAGED TO DO 1940S-STYLE DAMAGE.
IT’S A TESTIMONY TO HOW CAUTIOUS I WAS, WHICH IS A SHAME BECAUSE YOUR EARLY TWENTIES IS A GREAT TIME TO REVEL IN STUPIDITY. PLAY BEER PONG WITH BOURBON. PIERCE YOUR TONGUE. CLIMB ON THE BACK OF A MOTORCYCLE IN INDONESIA. WHAT THE HELL.
WHEN YOU’RE YOUNG; YOU DON’T HAVE TO MAKE SMART DECISIONS TO MAKE SOUND DECISIONS. YOU’RE STILL MAPPING THE TERRITORY, SO FAILURE IS THE QUICKEST ROUTE BETWEEN IDIOCY AND ENLIGHTENMENT.
THESE ARE A FEW OF THE LESSONS I WISH I’D STARTED LEARNING A LITTLE EARLIER. I HAVEN’T MASTERED THEM YET, BUT NOW YOU GET A HEAD START.
1. CONSIDER THE SOURCE. IF YOU’RE WORRIED ABOUT SOMEONE WHO DISLIKES YOU, FIRST ASK YOURSELF WHETHER THEY’RE AN ASSHOLE. IF YOU DON’T LIKE THEM, AND THEY DON’T LIKE YOU, THAT’S NOT A PROBLEM. THAT’S A MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING.
2. GET OFF THE COUCH. IF YOU FIND YOURSELF PLAYING HARD TO GET, DON’T PRETEND TO BE BUSY. JUST BE BUSY.
3. DON’T WASTE YOUR TIME. IF YOU HAVE TO PLAY HARD TO GET, MOVE ON. YOU’LL KNOW WHEN YOU’VE FOUND A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE IT WON’T CONFUSE YOU.
4. WHEN IN DOUBT, SHUT UP. SILENCE IS A SMART NEGOTIATION TACTIC, THE BEST OPTION WHEN YOU’RE PROCESSING HOW TO RESPOND, AND ALWAYS MORE PRODUCTIVE THAN LYING ABOUT WHAT YOU’RE THINKING.
5. DON’T COMPLAIN. MAYBE VENTING MAKES YOU FEEL BETTER, BUT LETTING OFF STEAM CAN ALSO LULL YOU INTO MAINTAINING THE STATUS QUO. UNFORTUNATELY, THE STATUS QUO IS PISSING YOU OFF, WHICH IS WHY YOU’RE WHINING IN THE FIRST PLACE. IF YOU’RE FRUSTRATED, TURN THAT ENERGY TOWARD FIXING YOUR PROBLEMS, NOT BITCHING ABOUT THEM.
6. DON’T OBSESS. WORRYING IS COMPLAINT’S UGLY COUSIN. EITHER USE THAT ENERGY TO CHANGE YOUR SITUATION, OR RELAX.
7. FIND AN AGE-APPROPRIATE STYLE. NO ONE WANTS TO SEE A 20 YEAR OLD IN BEIGE SLACKS AND A WOOL BLAZER. BUY TRENDY CLOTHES, WEAR THE SLUTTY DRESS, DO SOMETHING UGLY WITH YOUR HAIR. BE PART OF YOUR GENERATION, SO YOU CAN LAUGH AT THE PHOTOS LATER.
8. BE POLITE. IT KEEPS DOORS OPEN, LESSENS THE POTENTIAL FOR MISUNDERSTANDINGS, AND INCREASES THE ODDS OF GETTING INVITED BACK TO THE BEACH HOUSE.
9. BUT DEFEND YOUR BOUNDARIES. WHEN SOMEONE ISN’T TAKING NO FOR AN ANSWER, CLARIFY WHAT YOU WANT, AND THEN RESPOND FORCEFULLY. BEING POLITE TO SOMEONE WHO ISN’T HEARING YOU IS NAIVE.
10. YOU LOOK GOOD. THERE’S NO SUCH THING AS THE HOTTEST PERSON IN THE ROOM. EVERYONE IS ATTRACTED TO SOMETHING DIFFERENT, SO JUST TAKE THOSE ODDS AND RUN WITH THEM.
11. BEING NICE IS OVERRATED. IN FACT, “NICE” IS THE LEAST INTERESTING THING SOMEONE CAN SAY ABOUT YOU.
12. KEEP IT TO YOURSELF. “SHE SEEMS NICE” IS AN EXCELLENT THING TO SAY ABOUT SOMEONE YOU DON’T LIKE. PARTICULARLY IN THE COMPANY OF PEOPLE YOU DON’T KNOW.
13. KNOW YOUR AUDIENCE. WHEN YOU’RE TELLING A STORY AND SOMEONE INTERRUPTS YOU, LET THEM.
14. LET YOUR PASSION SHAPE YOUR PROFESSION. YOU KNOW THAT THING YOUR DAD SAYS? “IF WORK WASN’T HARD, THEY WOULDN’T PAY YOU TO DO IT.” PLEASE. THERE ARE PROFESSIONAL ROCK STARS, ASTRONAUTS, PUPPY TRAINERS, AND BLOGGERS.
15. SEX IS PERSONAL. DON’T BOTHER WITH ONE-NIGHT STANDS IF THEY’RE NOT YOUR THING, AND DON’T JUDGE PEOPLE FOR ENJOYING THEM (OR NOT). WAITING TO SLEEP WITH SOMEONE DOESN’T MAKE YOU AN UPTIGHT PRUDE, AND JUMPING INTO BED DOESN’T MAKE YOU A SPONTANEOUS ADVENTURE SEEKER.
16. FOCUS. THE SAYING, “WHAT YOU’RE THINKING ABOUT IS WHAT YOU’RE BECOMING” ISN’T JUST CHILLING, IT’S A UNIVERSAL LAW. BE AWARE OF HOW YOU’RE INVESTING YOUR ATTENTION – INCLUDING YOUR WORDS, AND YOUR ACTIONS.
17. CUT YOURSELF A BREAK. DON’T OFFER A RUNNING COMMENTARY ON YOUR OWN FAULTS. WHEN YOU DO, THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU LISTEN. GIVE YOURSELF SPACE TO CHANGE YOUR CHARACTER.
18. DON’T BE INTIMIDATED. WORLD TRAVELERS ARE JUST PEOPLE WHO BOUGHT PLANE TICKETS. PULITZER PRIZE WINNERS ARE PEOPLE WHO SIT ALONE AND WRITE. YOU CAN BREAK THE MOST PROFOUND ACCOMPLISHMENT DOWN TO A SERIES OF MUNDANE TASKS.
19. CHOOSE GOOD COMPANY. ASK YOURSELF IF A PERSON MAKES YOU BETTER OR DRAINS YOUR LIFE FORCE. IF THE ANSWER IS B, YOU’RE BUSY NEXT TIME THEY CALL. AND THE TIME AFTER THAT.
20. ENJOY YOUR BODY. ODDS ARE YOU’RE MORE BEAUTIFUL NOW THAN YOU WILL BE AGAIN. ASK YOUR ROOMMATE
Friday, July 23, 2010
Miss you...
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Listen to This 07.10
Sunday, July 11, 2010
Friday, July 2, 2010
Tuesday, June 15, 2010
Sunday, June 13, 2010
Thursday, June 10, 2010
Collections
Sunday, June 6, 2010
Listen to This 06.10
Sunday, May 30, 2010
If wishes were fishes...
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Thursday, April 29, 2010
Saturday, April 17, 2010
Films to see
There is never enough time to partake all at once so lists are a must!
Here are a few films on my list...
Coco Before Chanel
No Impact Man - I'm hearing about this everywhere!
The Botany of Desire based on the book by Michael Pollan
Any other recommendations?
xo,
H
Spring has sprung
Sunday, April 11, 2010
the small stakes
Thursday, April 8, 2010
Built By Wendy
Friday, April 2, 2010
Thursday, April 1, 2010
I wish...
Saturday, March 27, 2010
Amazing!
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
Obsession
Saturday, March 13, 2010
I've Been Dreaming of You
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
Anything Old
Just look at these rooms though! They have some of the very best second hand finds!!! THESE are what inspires me to thrift store shop.
Isn't this magazine rack the lovliest piece you've seen???
I have GOT to have an old library card catalog cabinet like this one!
I love how they've turned thos old crate into a nightstand/bookcase.
xo,
H
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
Awoken from the slumber
Recently, at my current place of employment, the stores blog has become my baby. So it's time to brush up on my creative writing skills in a place that won't suffer from my poor writing skills in the beginning. {I promise they will get better.}
So maybe now is the time to redefine my own blog. I'm just not quite sure what though. Maybe for now I'll just write about the things I love. So today, well tonight, since I can't sleep, Top Ten Things I Love Today...
1. Thrift store shopping... I have found so many treasures in the past few months all thanks to a dear friend of mine who has taught me how to be patient and how to sift through all of the junk. Her home is a true inspiration.
2. Gold photo frames... Thrift stores have the best to offer!
3. Norah Jones - The Fall - if you haven't yet. Indulge in this record.
Pete Yorn & Scarlett Johansen - Breakup
The Be Good Tanyas
4. Bright colors... To wear, to decorate with, anything! Spring is on it's way... Ok not really Here in Utah but bright colors might make it happen sooner.
5. Penny loafers - I recently purchased the perfect cognac pair and love them so much!
6. Diet Coke - Always a love of mine.
7. Dishes, bakeware, utensils. There are so many fun colors and great styles out right now I could have stacks and stacks of dishes.
8. My iPhone. No Internet at home is no bueno. This phone saves me!
9. My tiny purses. Lately I have hated carrying my huge suitcase size purses around especially while thrift store shopping in the breakables.
10. The book "Etcetera" by Sibella Court. Beautiful and inspiring.